“Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes
are uncertain. People are irrational.”
Communicate Regularly and Respectfully
Regular communication is essential to building trust and a good relationship with your ex in the future. Make time for one-on-one conversations or check in with your ex from time to time. You don't have to be best friends after a divorce, but establishing mutual respect is a guarantee that any conflicts will be resolved amicably without making things worse.
Consistent communication lays the foundation for developing a healthy relationship after a divorce — even if it may be uncomfortable at first. This will allow you to openly discuss problems and issues related to shared responsibilities, as well as promote understanding and acceptance of each other's points of view. Therefore, use every opportunity, be it a face-to-face meeting or a telephone conversation, to establish a connection that will help strengthen a good relationship with your ex- spouse!