“People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil. The real
conflict is between truth and lies.”
Recognize the existence of a long-term conflict and its
negative impact on your relationship.
- Reflect on your patterns of behavior and how you react to any conflicts.
- try to get the opinion of friends or family who have observed your quarrels with your partner and how you resolve conflict situations. If you ignore long-term conflicts for a while, they can quickly become one of the main reasons for divorce. If you immediately, at an early stage of the conflict, realize the importance and seriousness of the situation, you can work on finding the best solutions on your own or with professional help. Remember that seeking outside help doesn't mean you've failed as a couple - it means you're doing your best to preserve what's important to both of you - your relationship.